Episode: how I found her
Thursday, April 24, 2008

"A good relationship is when your weaknesses are covered by your partner's strengths and your strengths covers your partner's weaknesses."

After learning about temperaments and how it affects people's every behavior, I found out why my girlfriend and I tend to get along quite well. Temperaments are inherited from our parents and it would split us to become either an introverted or extroverted person. An introverted person are those who tends to keep quiet most of the time, while an extroverted person are those who are more expressive.

Life is a balance, as they say. To succeed in life, one has to capitalize on their strengths and work on their weaknesses. In my case, my gal helped me work on my weaknesses as it was her strength and I helped her weaknesses, as it was my strength. I was an introverted person and she was an extroverted one. Two different people helping each other. Soon, I developed her strength and she developed mine. A balance is achieved. That is why opposites attract.

We get together when I decided to have someone to teach me Malay, as that was my weakest subject and I really want to improve on it. Why I wanted a girl to teach me? Hehe..Well at that time I was kind of lonely, so at the same time get myself a partner. My gal was my third choice of the selected three that I had in mind. The other two also had good Malay results and exceptionally good looks, but I find my gal had something more than that, more than mere looks. She had an awesome attitude and always fun to be with. She was the direct opposite to me.

We were friends for a long time, and during that time, we fell for each other. Soon, we decided to get attached, be faithful to each other, not to lie to each other and not to forget to aim for a better future for each other. To do that, we had to put education as our number one priority, but with each other's help. Nobody is perfect, similarly to our relationship, we need to work at it to prevent any miscommunication.



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Aidie blogged @ 4:04 AM

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